Do You Hear The People Sing?

The year after I graduated from college I lived in West Philly and worked for a nonprofit downtown. For New Year’s Eve that year I wanted to do something special, so I got tickets to Les Misérables and made reservations at an Italian restaurant on the waterfront that one of my coworkers recommended as “authentic.” For several weeks I’d been walking by the theater and I was excited to finally see a Broadway production, especially one based on a book I’d read and loved and a film I had fond memories of watching with my grandparents.

Our showing was the early one at 7pm so our seating for the New Year’s Eve prix fixe menu was also the early one at 5pm. At that time the restaurant was nearly empty and we got a nice seat by the window. At which point the waiter began leisurely bringing us a nine-course meal and I began to get increasingly anxious about actually making it to the theater on time. I have never eaten such delicious food so sparingly and quickly in my life and I am sure that it was a sad day personally for the waiter, although a profitable one for the restaurant in terms of what we actually consumed. I confess that we were somewhat distracted by the steady stream of dressed-to-the-nines families and individuals making their way into the restaurant, being checked over by two huge guys, and then being ushered through the doors they were flanking into a room that we never did get a clear look at. We weren’t quite counting on early dinner with the Don!

We then raced (on foot) up to the theater, me in a long velvet dress and suede heels–which I was, shall we say, inexpert at walking quickly in–and my partner in a suit and tie, making it just in time to be seated as the lights dimmed. The show was fantastic, everything I could have wanted it to be. At the end the cast led the audience in Auld Lang Syne and we poured out into the street. Where there was still over an hour before we rang in 1997, so we headed up the street to the Irish Pub. When we got there not one but two fistfights over taxis were happening out front and we decided to give it a miss. At which point we pivoted and walked into the place across the street, a lovely little spot (which may or may not have been an earlier incarnation of Caribou Café) where they squeezed us into an upstairs table and kept bringing the bottles of champagne I kept ordering. We stayed well past midnight, and then asked our waiter to help get us a cab. Such naïveté! It was snowing, it was New Year’s Eve, we were in downtown Philly: there were no cabs. Having no other choice but to walk four miles to my house–which I often did but not in heels and a dress in the winter–we closed out the place, insisted our waiter help us finish the champagne we had accumulated, and then for the price of some gas accepted a ride home from him. Never has some kind of little red hatchback been a more welcome chariot!

Many things have changed in the two decades since that night, but one that won’t is the rousing and defiant spirit of the story and the score. It is the music of a people who will not be slaves again.

Let’s Work Together

What do you do when the world serves up only more injustice? I don’t know what you do, but I watch a movie where Rick Springfield is in a band with Meryl Streep. Then I go to bed too late, fall asleep listening to rain on metal gutters, and get up another day to pray for the dead and fight like hell for the living.

Story of My Life

I love this song. Anthem of the sad sack, ballad of the misfit. It is eminently adaptable and provides an acceptable way for adults to commiserate above the heads of children. No Christmas mugs left when you go to get your coffee? Gotta go back to work while the rest of your family is still on vacation? All the mince pies are eaten while you’re still doing dishes? Your one non-clothing gift arrives broken?

Story of my life.

Ain’t No Stoppin’ Us Now

Habari gani? Kujichagulia!

Joyous Kwanzaa! Today is the second day of Kwanzaa, a celebration of core principles of African heritage. The Wikipedia tells me that non-African Americans can also celebrate Kwanzaa and while our family isn’t exactly celebrating it in full, we are definitely trying to learn more about this holiday. We gave the sprout a picture book explaining the principles and the adults have been relying on my grad school comrade’s writings about the continued relevance of Kwanzaa.

What we’re learning is that the values of Kwanzaa are core ethics that anyone can live by. Yesterday on the first day we celebrated unity–Umoja–by having the people we care about over to our house to eat bagels, drink coffee, and share good wishes for the holidays. Today we are recognizing self-determination–Kujichagulia–by making space for a much-needed day of rest and recovery, noticing who we are and what is important to our family well-being. Tomorrow we will make our annual charitable donations in the spirit of Ujima, collective work and responsibility. While these are things we do every year, this week we are reflecting on how these principles have guided and sustained African-American communities through decades (centuries!) of challenges and how we can all grow stronger together in each new generation.

If you’ve ever been held down before, I know you refuse to be held down anymore.

1999

Today we partied like it was 1999: invited all our friends over, crammed into our house, ate and drank for a few hours, and added the new feature of not paying attention to our own children (but watching those within vicinity).

As one commenter says, “Y’all better watch this video like it’s 1999 because Prince don’t play with his music being on YouTube.” Happy Boxing Day.

What Christmas Means to Me

When I was a kid, my father’s favorite Christmas album was A Motown Christmas (my mom’s was maybe one by Anne Murray). Before dawn, because Christmas with kids always happens before dawn, we would gather to start with the stockings and my dad would put this record on full blast. My brother and I always complained about it being corny and my mother always winced at the volume, but now it’s also my favorite and it wouldn’t be Christmas without it. This song is the one I now love to sing it with my son.

We wish you a Merry Christmas, baby, and such happiness in the coming year.

Winter Wonderland

Our family’s Christmas Eve tradition, besides stuffing our pieholes with tourtière and mince tarts–you thought I meant piehole figuratively?–is singing carols before bed. As a kid I always liked the ones about the baby Jesus but as an adult I gravitate toward the ones about snow. It probably has something to do with living for 13 years now in a place where we get so little that 2 inches of snow is cause for a day off school and work. Whatever the reason, we tend to skip ahead to these on our well-worn Ella Fitzgerald cd.

We’re projected to have a high of 75F today, but a girl can dream.

Sweet Jane

The light is coming. We made it through the longest, darkest night one more time. It’s raining here but we are watching the sky for the first signs of sunrise. I love this time of year and I also love it when it starts to get bright again.

This is an old old favorite, by a band I still kind of love. Gang of Four ended their reunion concert with this cover and I sang it at karaoke the night after Lou Reed died.

Anyone who ever had a heart, they wouldn’t turn around and break it. Don’t let the evil muthas get you down.